One to One – Or in a Group? Part 2

Should discipleship take place in a one-to-one relationship,
or in a group setting? Is it an either/or, or both?

Waylon Moore in his article, “Why Make Disciples?” answers the above questions with a “both”, but he also goes to explain why both are necessary. In this Focus article I will provide Moore’s twelve reasons for why one-to-one is important:

1. Group ministry is the method most often used in the local church, so people feel at ease with it and expect its methodology.

2. It is a fluid method. An individual can move in and out of the group without destroying either the group or his relationship with those attending.

3. The group method allows people to participate without feeling put on the spot. Some people are not ready for one-to-one discipling.

4. A variety of teaching methods can be used in the group setting.

5. General doctrine can be easily taught to several people at once.

6. Bible study is highly stimulating as different members discuss together their research and application.

7. Momentum can grow in groups. A spirit of adventure and unity can eventually motivate those who are less eager at first.

8. Giving general correction and exhortation in a group is more subtle than directly confronting individuals.

9. A group counseling effect can result from people becoming interested in and praying for the needs of others.

10. Groups are effective channels for funneling people into a more intensive one-to-one relationship and training time.

11. The Holy Spirit can use the background and experiences of a number of people to teach each member of the group.

12. The spiritual gifts of all the members can collectively provide strength and minister to the group.He also adds: “Discipling is one of the most strategic ways to have an unlimited personal ministry. It may be done at any time, by anyone, anywhere, and among any age group. Discipling is the most flexible of ministries, since it need not be done within any time frame or organizational structure.”

He also adds: “Discipling has more long-range potential for fruit than any other ministry. The Lord wants us to be rooted and built up in Him and established in the faith. This takes time and care. Caring for people is the essential component.”

So, what are you waiting for? Consider getting into a Life on Life group today. If not sure how, contact me and let’s see if we can get you started.

For the Spiritual Health and Growth of our FAMILY, Pastor Matt